The dictionary defines maturity as “the state of being fully grown or developed”, which I guess is technically right, but sounds like it has an element of wish in it: I know many people who are fully grown and are anything but fully developed.
But perhaps the dictionary is trying to be inspiring. Certainly, it has synonyms for maturity that sound more real. For example, it lists words like completion, cultivation, experience, full bloom (I like that one!), mellowness, prime, wisdom, and my favorite, “readiness”.
Encore or boomer entrepreneurs generally make a living by being mature. The wisdom or experience that comes from maturity is usually their chief asset, which is in turn employed by either a company or themselves in a business. So it’s probably a good idea to understand what it means. To that end, here’s my riff on maturity:
Maturity means you have learned lessons and recognize you will continue to learn them. Life is a continual, informal and sometimes formal school and you’re always at your desk.
Maturity means constant growth and you can’t grow unless you screw up sometimes. If you’re mature, you understand that you will make mistakes, that you will make corrections, and that you will learn from the process.
Maturity means understanding that the most important time is the present. Yes, you have a past, and (it’s hoped) a future. But, while you may think about them, you can’t live in the past or the future. The only time you can live is right now.
Maturity means understanding that creativity is as important as pragmatism, and vice versa. Being purely creative all the time is the function of a child without responsibilities. Being constantly pragmatic is dull and lifeless. Even the most pragmatic dish needs a little creative sauce to be palatable.
Maturity means recognizing that you should do all things in moderation. And that includes being moderate. Kick up your heels once in a while.
Maturity means understanding that the grass isn’t always greener on the other side of the fence. But sometimes it is. You have to analyse and decide.
Maturity means recognizing that what you make of your life is up to you. Yes, you may have been shaped when you were immature by other, outside, forces, but there comes a time when you make the choices. The philosopher Albert Camus said it best: “Alas, after a certain age, every man is responsible for his own face.” He meant women too. And I don’t think he was talking about cosmetic surgery.
Maturity means that if you love or hate someone that says more about you than them. You can’t love or hate something about another person unless it reflects to you something you love or hate about yourself.
Maturity means being less critical and more understanding. We all have foibles, bad habits, and annoying traits. Sure, we should try to change them, but sometimes we can’t.
As we have said often, operating a boomer business is different than running a more traditional one.
Your business goals are usually different: You’re concerned as much with exploration and as you are with making vast amounts of moolah.
But you still have to make a little bit and that means you have to sell your services. The only way to do that is to generate leads – potential customers who might be interested in actually paying you for doing something you love.
Now, there are thousands of marketing operations around that will give you advice on how to go about this. That advice ranges from the latest whizz-bang social media technique, to the very loud and usually ineffective advertising or direct sales message.
I’m not saying you should ignore it all, but I do suggest you pick whatever is relevant to your business, and put the rest far into the background.
Generally all this marketing advice is a waste of time for a boomer business, because it’s aimed at the mass. You only want to talk to a few of this big herd.
So, top lead generation techniques for the boomer entrepreneur include:
1. Working the Rolodex: By your age you’ve probably amassed a wide network of contacts in all areas of business. Even better, they know you, if only distantly. So why not market directly to the group where you have the best chance of success? Prepare a summation of what you can offer and go have a visit with long-time friends. You have to ask for the business, but try to keep the hard sell pitching to a minimum. If they can’t use your services, ask them if they know anyone who can.
2. Social Media: I’m not saying you should plaster yourself all over every social media website out there. But you might want to pick one or two popular blogs or websites where your prospects are most likely to be, and start having conversations (again, not hard sell pitches). It is after all, free, except for your time. But be careful to manage it and not get caught up in the trivia.
3. Speaking/Writing: Your’s is probably a business based on your expertise, so you have to find only the customers who can use it. There’s no better way to do that than to speak on the subject or write articles for magazines, newsletters, or blogs that focus on your area. It’s called expertise marketing, in which you show your stuff as an expert to potential customers. Your goal should be to become the answer person in this area.
Elsewhere on this site, there is a blog by Matthew Young about reinvention through fitness. Excellent concept, and it is one method of creative reinvention.
As an entrepreneur reinvention coach, I have to point out that there are many methods of reinvention. Most of these involve reinvention through ingenuity, which can then be applied to entrepreneurship.
To invent is to produce or create something by using the imagination. To reinvent means to make over completely, also through ingenuity and imagination. Ingenuity and imagination always involve an element of passion.
So boomer entrepreneurs are all about reinvention. Almost all of them are leaving one life and reinventing themselves in another. Most often this is manifested as leaving a corporate gig and striking out in your own business.
Boomers do this because they want to be more creative with the last decade or two of their working lives. They have probably been stuck in a rut – even the most exciting task becomes the same old, same old after it’s done a thousand times – and want to rekindle some passion in their work.
For example: Recently, I ran across a former real estate developer who now promotes health and wellness services. He makes a fraction of the money, but he’s much happier because he’s doing something he’s passionate about.
And so it is with most boomerpreneurs. Making money is only one goal, and often a low priority one. Often, the high priority goal is to work again with a passion, with a belief in something.
It’s like when you first started your working life and you were willing to spend many hours at something because you revelled in it. When you’re in the throes of creativity, time and “return” lose meaning.
This doesn’t mean mid-life entrepreneurism is a piece of cake. Like all new pursuits, it can be hard at times.
But the hardships are easier to weather if you have a purpose rooted in passion.